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Families of fallen soldiers blast Donald Trump for saying past presidents never called them

DONALD Trump is under fire from the families of fallen soldiers after making an extraordinary claim about past presidents.


Trump claims Obama Didnt Call Fallen Soldiers' Families

The families of slain US soldiers have lashed out at Donald Trump, branding him a “fat f**king liar”, after he falsely said past presidents had never called them.

“When my brother was killed (in Iraq War), Pres Bush listened while I screamed at him & then held me as I sobbed, you fat f**king liar,” Delilia O’Malley tweeted at President Trump.

Her fury was echoed by Gold Star families and the staffers of former presidents, who accused President Trump of blatantly lying.

The Republican leader said in a news conference on Monday he had written letters to the families of four soldiers killed in an October 4 ambush in Niger and planned to call them, crediting himself with taking extra steps in honouring the dead properly.

“Most of them didn’t make calls,” he said of his predecessors. He said it’s possible that President Barack Obama “did sometimes” but “other presidents did not call.”

TRUMP DOUBLE DOWNS ON RANT

Mr Trump on Tuesday doubled down on his comments, saying reporters should ask his chief of staff, General John Kelly, if Mr Obama called him after his son, Robert Kelly, was killed by a landmine.

First Lieutenant Robert Kelly died in action while serving with the Marines in Afghanistan in 2010.

“You could ask General Kelly, did he get a call from Obama? I don’t know what Obama’s policy was,” Mr Trump said on Fox News Radio.

A White House official on Tuesday told NBC News that President Obama did not call General Kelly.

But ABC News in the US reports General Kelly and his wife attended a breakfast for Gold Star families at the White House in 2011 and sat at first lady Michelle Obama’s table.

The breakfast, hosted by the Obamas, was scheduled six months after the death of General Kelly’s son

‘DERANGED ANIMAL’

President Trump’s comments triggered a visceral reaction from many who witnessed past presidents grieve with the families of fallen soldiers.

“He’s a deranged animal,” Alyssa Mastromonaco, a former deputy chief of staff to President Obama, tweeted about President Trump. With an expletive, she called his statement in the Rose Garden a lie.

Mr Obama’s former White House spokesman Josh Earnest said that his boss would repeatedly “show his enormous respect ... for those who had paid the ultimate sacrifice for our country” through various visits and meetings as well as phone calls and letters.

Eric Holder, President Obama’s former attorney-general, called on Mr Trump to tell the truth.

“Stop the damn lying — you’re the President,” he tweeted
President George W. Bush, even at the height of two wars, “wrote all the families of the fallen,” said Freddy Ford, spokesman for the ex-president.

He said President Bush also called or met “hundreds, if not thousands” of family members of the war dead.

President Obama’s official photographer, Pete Souza, said he photographed the Democrat leader’s “meeting with hundreds of wounded soldiers, and family members of those killed in action.”

Others recalled his frequent visits with Gold Star families, and travels to Walter Reed, Dover and other venues with families of the dead, and with the wounded.

Retired General Martin E. Dempsey, the former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, confirmed these contacts, tweeting: “POTUS 43 & 44 and first ladies cared deeply, worked tirelessly for the serving, the fallen, and their families. Not politics. Sacred Trust.”

President George W. Bush, even at the height of two wars, “wrote all the families of the fallen,” said Freddy Ford, spokesman for the ex-president.

He said President Bush also called or met “hundreds, if not thousands” of family members of the war dead.

President Obama’s official photographer, Pete Souza, said he photographed the Democrat leader’s “meeting with hundreds of wounded soldiers, and family members of those killed in action.”

Others recalled his frequent visits with Gold Star families, and travels to Walter Reed, Dover and other venues with families of the dead, and with the wounded.

Retired General Martin E. Dempsey, the former chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, confirmed these contacts, tweeting: “POTUS 43 & 44 and first ladies cared deeply, worked tirelessly for the serving, the fallen, and their families. Not politics. Sacred Trust.”

WHITE HOUSE DEFENDS TRUMP

White House Press Secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders said later that President Trump “wasn’t criticising predecessors, but stating a fact.”

She argued that presidents didn’t always call families of those killed in battle: “Sometimes they call, sometimes they send a letter, other times they have the opportunity to meet family members in person.”

She said anyone claiming a former president had called every family was “mistaken.”

President Trump’s relations with Gold Star families have not always been smooth, dating from his belittlement of the parents of slain US soldier Humayun Khan, who was Muslim.

President Trump was angered when the soldier’s father, Khizr Khan, was given a platform to criticise him at the Democratic National Convention.

MCCAIN BLASTS ‘HALF-BAKED’ NATIONALISM

Senator John McCain has blasted “half-baked” nationalism and praised international co-operation in a speech on Monday night that appeared to contrast President Trump’s emphasis on putting “America first.”

The former POW and Arizona Republican called the US “the last best hope on earth” while giving an acceptance speech for the National Constitution Centre’s Liberty Medal, reports The New York Post, citing a Politico report.

Senator McCain said it was the country’s duty to lead instead of blaming others for our problems.

“To fear the world we have organised and led for three-quarters of a century, to abandon the ideals we have advanced around the globe to refuse the obligations of international leadership and our duty to remain ‘the last best hope of earth’ for the sake of some half-baked, spurious nationalism cooked up by people who would rather find scapegoats than solve problems is as unpatriotic as an attachment to any other tired dogma of the past that Americans consigned to the ash heap of history,” he said.

Senator McCain added that the US has a moral obligation to continue our tradition of spreading American ideals and would suffer if that commitment was not met

He said: “We live in a land made of ideals, not blood and soil. We have a moral obligation to continue in our just cause, and we would bring more than shame on ourselves if we don’t. We will not thrive in a world where our leadership and ideals are absent. We wouldn’t deserve to.”

While not mentioning President Trump by name, Senator McCain’s speech was a sharp contrast to President Trump’s habits of shunning international institutions such as NATO and the United Nations.

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SORRY FOLKS ,cant get in to clean this one up ,
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pathological lying DRAFT DODGER gets called outHug

Trump branded 'fat f***ing liar' by sister of U.S. soldier killed in Iraq


https://www.yahoo.com/news/trump-branded-fat-fing-liar-sister-us-soldier-killed-iraq-080127138.html


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Sorry carbon. Can't get past John McCain to fix it either. That's weird.
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"This Guy Has The Empathy of A Cockroach"

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2017/10/17/1707633/--This-Guy-Has-The-Empathy-of-A-Cockroach

“Boy, it’s a tough day for the President? How about for the families who accepted a child or a father or a spouse home in a casket? It’s not a tough day for them? This guy has the empathy of a cockroach. From the day after his inauguration when he showed up at my former agency, the CIA, in front of the wall of fallen heroes, and spoke about the size of his inauguration. Fast-forwarding now nine months, and he can’t figure out his responsibility not only as the Commander-in-Chief, but as the consoler-in-chief.”
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John McCain a TRUE PATRIOT,

I would follow HIM TO HELL,

coz he went there and came back!!!!!

Unlike some who never even made it to boot camp......

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Great job Technophobe
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Thank you, Carbon.
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Trump finally calls military widow, tells her 'he knew what he signed up for'

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2017/10/17/1707681/-Trump-finally-call-military-widow-tells-her-he-knew-what-he-signed-up-for

U.S. President Donald Trump told U.S. Army Sgt. La David Johnson's widow Tuesday that "he knew what he signed up for ...but when it happens it hurts anyway," when he died serving in northwestern Africa, according to Rep. Frederica Wilson, D-Miami Gardens.

"Yes, he said it," Wilson said. "It's so insensitive. He should have not have said that. He shouldn't have said it."

It took the Idiot-in-Chief almost two weeks to come up with those words of comfort? Maybe he needs to go back to ignoring military deaths and stick to (cheating at) golf.


words of "comfort" from our DRAFT DODGER "Christian President


empathy of a COCKROACH indeed

I could so let loose with burst of profanity right nowCensored

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Gold Star Moms Blast Trump For Delayed Response To Soldiers’ Deaths


https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/trump-gold-star-mother_us_59e654abe4b08f9f9edb2a5d?ncid=inblnkushpmg00000009


the sociopathic dirt bag that call himself President continues to take one JUSTIFIED

hit after another after another

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Donald Trump tells Sergeant La David Johnson's widow: 'He knew what he signed up for'

Updated 40 minutes ago



 
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VIDEO: Body of ambushed soldier returns to US (ABC News)

United States President Donald Trump has told a soldier's grieving widow on her way to meet her husband's casket that "he knew what he signed up for", according to a congresswoman who overheard the call.

Key points:

  • Sgt La David Johnson and three other soldiers were killed in a terrorist ambush in Niger on October 4
  • Mr Trump had not addressed soldiers deaths, criticised Obama and others for not calling families of death soldiers
  • Congresswoman who heard President's call to grieving widow weeks after death says call was insensitive

Sergeant La David Johnson, 25, of Miami Gardens, Florida, was killed in Niger earlier this month during an ambush carried out by Boko Haram and other extremists linked to ISIS.

Congresswoman Frederica Wilson was riding in a limousine with the soldier's widow, Myeshia Johnson, and her family to meet the casket at Miami International Airport when she overheard the President's call and what she described on Twitter as his "insensitive comments".

"Basically he said, 'Well I guess he knew what he signed up for, but I guess it still hurts'," Ms Wilson told CNN.

"I heard what he said because the phone was on speaker."

The Florida Representative said Ms Johnson was already distraught, particularly after hearing the casket would be closed.

Johnson's body arrived home on Tuesday, nearly two weeks after his death on October 4.

He was one of four US soldiers killed when a joint patrol of American and Niger forces was ambushed by militants believed linked to the Islamic State group.

"This is a young woman who has two young children, who is six months' pregnant with her third child [and] she has just lost her husband.

"She was just told that he cannot have an open-casket funeral which gives her all kinds of nightmares of how his body must look, how his face must look. And this is what the United States President says to her?

"That is not something you say to a grieving wife."

Ms Wilson said Ms Johnson could not say anything in response to the President because she was crying.

"There were other family members in the car and they were all crying," Ms Wilson said.

"All she said when it was time to hang up was 'thank you, goodbye'."

The congresswoman's reaction to the call was to take the phone and "curse him out", but she was not handed the phone.

When the limousine arrived at the airport to greet the casket, a sobbing, Ms Johnson and her two children awaited the casket, alongside various local officials and law enforcement officers, who were on site to pay their respects.

Ms Johnson lay across the US flag draping her husband's casket, sobbing uncontrollably.


 
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VIDEO: Body of Special Forces soldier killed in Niger arrives in US (Image Reuters: Courtesy Aaron J. Jenne/ US Air Force)(ABC News)

Niger ambush could be Trump's Benghazi, Wilson says

Ms Wilson said there are still questions about Sergeant Johnson's death that are yet to be answered.

"[The family] don't know why he was separated from the other soldiers," she said.

"This could turn out to be another Benghazi, and I have asked for an investigation.

"We want to find out exactly what happened and I'm expecting a classified briefing when I return to Washington to answer some of these mitigating questions that I can't answer on my own."

Ms Wilson said Sergeant Johnson, who mentored in her dropout prevention program for boys which she founded in 1993, was a hero in their community.

"There was no reason for the President to be so insensitive, not only to the family of this soldier, but the impervious rhetoric is disrespectful to the family of every soldier that has paid the ultimate price of freedom," she said.

Trump boasts he calls families where Obama, others did not

The call came after the US President falsely claimed his predecessor, Barack Obama, did not contact the families of US troops killed in the line of duty.

The claim drew a swift response from Mr Obama's foreign policy adviser Ben Rhodes, who said it was "an outrageous and disrespectful lie".

The President made the claims in response to questions about why he had not publicly spoken about the killing of the US soldiers in Niger two weeks ago.

"If you look at President Obama and other presidents, most of them didn't make calls," Mr Trump said during a news conference in the Rose Garden with the Senate majority leader, Mitch McConnell.

"A lot of them didn't make calls. I like to call when it's appropriate."

It's shameful how @realDonaldTrump politicizes issue of fallen soldiers to deflect criticism for not recognizing the 4 who died in Niger!

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Trump Claims Congresswoman Lied About His Call To Army Widow

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/trump-congresswoman-call-army-widow_us_59e73b81e4b00905bdadb6dc?ncid=inblnkushpmg00000009

Johnson’s mother, who said she also heard Trump’s speakerphone conversation, confirmed that Wilson accurately repeated what the president said.

“President Trump did disrespect my son and my daughter and also me and my husband,” Cowanda Jones-Johnson told The Washington Post on Wednesday.


Trump has denied part of the conversation and said he has "proof"

ok

lets see it.......LOL

heck,we're still waiting on the infamous Comey tapes LOL


what kind of a DIRT BAG would say such a thing to a grieving widow???


oh yeah someone like Trump


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‘Repulsive Oaf’ Trump Ripped For What He Said To Slain Soldier’s Widow


https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/donald-trump-knew-what-he-signed-up-for_us_59e70862e4b0d0e4fe6c0323


I think I might have to start a new thread about Trump

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Nah, Pol Pot, Stalin, Mao and a host of petty warlords, even the biblical Joshua - who was guilty of genocide eight times, and a few others beat him to that dubious crown. 
 
You notice I have not mentioned Hitler.  Hitler is still well in the lead over Trump, but they are running along the same track at similar speeds.  So if you hang on until they have been in power for the same length of time, we will see who wins the crown.  Trump might even change direction, or fail to finish.  You never know your luck.
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Family of soldier slam Trump's disrespect

The mother of an Army sergeant killed in Niger says President Donald Trump, in a call offering condolences, showed "disrespect" to the soldier's loved ones as they drove to the airport to meet his body.

David Johnson was one of four American military personnel killed nearly two weeks ago whose families had not heard from Trump until Tuesday.

Democratic politician Frederica Wilson said Trump told the widow Johnson "knew what he signed up for".

The Florida Democrat said she was in the car with the widow, Myeshia Johnson, on the way to Miami International Airport to meet the body when Trump called.

Johnson's mother, Cowanda Jones-Johnson, told The Associated Press Wednesday that the congresswoman's account was correct.

Trump on Wednesday declared on Twitter: "Democrat Congresswoman totally fabricated what I said to the wife of a soldier who died in action (and I have proof). Sad!"

Wilson did not back down from her account, suggesting that Trump "never wants to take ownership" of a mistake.

Trump has made personal contact with some families of the fallen but not all. What's different is that Trump picked a political fight over who's done better to honour the war dead and their families.

He placed himself at the top of the list, saying on Tuesday, "I think I've called every family of someone who's died" while past presidents didn't place such calls.

But The Associated Press found relatives of two soldiers who died overseas during Trump's presidency who said they never received a call or a letter from him, as well as relatives of a third who did not get a call.

Proof is plentiful that Barack Obama and George W. Bush - saddled with far more combat casualties than the roughly two dozen so far under Trump, took painstaking steps to write, call or meet bereaved military families.

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CHUMP IS A ..............

LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR LIAR...........................
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By Anthony Zurcher, senior North America reporter, BBC News

In US politics, nothing is off-limits any more.

After (inaccurately) swiping at his predecessors for not calling the family members of US soldiers killed in combat, Mr Trump is on the defensive over allegations he mishandled a call with a grieving widow.

The accuser is a partisan Democratic congresswoman and the president, not surprisingly, is pushing back hard. This controversy is spiralling towards the gutter.

Mr Trump made this bed, however. He was quick to cite the slain son of chief of staff John Kelly to justify his contention that Barack Obama didn't always make phone calls. Then there were the disparaging comments candidate Mr Trump made last summer about the parents of a Muslim-American soldier killed in Iraq.

The more this story drags on - and it will drag on - the more damage it could do to a president who wraps himself in the symbols of patriotism and the military, but is in danger of being viewed by the public as lacking empathy when it counts most.

An important presidential role is consoler-in-chief during times of tragedy. Successful politicians learn early that they need a human touch.

It's a job Mr Trump, the anti-politician, has little experience doing - and it shows.

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How did this row begin?

Mr Trump has been on the defensive over the deaths in Niger since a reporter asked him at the White House on Monday why he had still not called the families.

He provoked fury by falsely claiming that his predecessor, Barack Obama, and other former US presidents had not called the relatives of dead service members.


Media captionTrump denigrates Obama over false fallen soldier claim

Mr Trump also said he had written letters to the families of the four servicemen killed in Niger and planned to call them soon. The White House later said the president had spoken to the families but it did not say when.

On Tuesday, Mr Trump ratcheted up the row by suggesting that President Obama had not called the family of Mr Trump's chief of staff, Gen John Kelly, when his son was killed in Afghanistan in 2010.

The Associated Press says that like presidents before him, Mr Trump has made personal contact with some families of dead soldiers - but not all.

"What's different is that Trump, alone among them, has picked a political fight over who's done better to honour the war dead and their families," the American news agency reports.

"He placed himself at the top of this pantheon, boasting Tuesday that 'I think I've called every family of someone who's died' while past presidents didn't place such calls'."

Not the first time

This is not the first time Mr Trump has found himself in an imbroglio over US veterans.

As presidential candidate, he mocked Senator John McCain for having been captured and held as a prisoner of war in Vietnam after his aircraft was shot down.

Mr McCain has been praised for the bravery he showed during torture by his VietCong captors, and for his leadership of other American prisoners.

Mr Trump also engaged in a feud with the parents of decorated army captain Humayun Khan, a Muslim-American who was killed in Iraq in 2004.

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Trump says he has 'proof' on his call to soldier's wife, and the nation waits

https://www.yahoo.com/news/trump-says-proof-call-soldiers-mother-nation-awaits-170523053.html


just look at Trumps body language LOL

he's LYING


Trump has proof?


OK


produce it and shut yer critics up


the WH has already claimed there were no  tapes of the conversation

however John Kelly was listening in

is Chump gonna drag him and his deceased son out for another "patriotic display "


if I was Kelly I'd be ready to sock somebody in the face


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Fallen Soldier's Mother: 'President Trump Did Disrespect My Son' And Family


http://crooksandliars.com/2017/10/fallen-soldiers-mother-president-trump-did


Trump has attacked the Congresswoman involved and in effect called her a liar

is is now going to attack this fallen soldiers mother too ???????

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First her son is killed.

Then her pregnant daughter in law is treated with all the sensitivity and kindness of Dr. Mengele.

Then she is dragged into a public spat with the President calling everyone else a liar to cover up his own lies. 
 
Is there no peace for this poor woman?  Does the whole country not owe her and her family a debt that cannot be repaid?

Trump insulted Hilary Clinton, Barak Obama, George Bush and even a Republican war-hero, but they were politicians.  Even though the insults were false, if you can't take it don't go into politics. 

This woman did not go into politics.  She did not chose this situation and she has lost a son.  Isn't that trouble enough?

Then again the family was black, and we all know how Trump feels about that. What a POS!
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Confirmed: Trump Didn’t Send that $25,000 Check Until the Story Broke


https://www.redstate.com/patterico/2017/10/19/confirmed-trump-didnt-send-25000-check-story-broke/


Had the Washington Post not reported it, he was never going to send that man a dime. Not one thin dime.

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White House: Politicization of Troop Deaths Is a ‘Disgrace of the Media’


http://www.breitbart.com/big-journalism/2017/10/18/white-house-trump-comments-families-fallen-troops-context/


the media made this political ???


the MEDIA ???


another fine piece of journalism from breitbart.com whose motto is "doing Goebbels proud"


and interesting how they leave out the part where the fallen soldiers mother backs up the account of the Congresswoman


and we're still waiting on that "proof" Trump says he has

by all means Chump ,lets hear it

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bet they hidden in same place as the Comey Tapes.................

threats, threats ,threats,big man 

what rank in the Army did he get to ..............

oh thats right he took the COWARDS way out................

CRAVEN bully that he is
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Jake Tapper: Gen. Kelly Confirmed Trump Lied When He Denied Widow's Claims


http://crooksandliars.com/2017/10/jake-tapper-gen-kelly-confirms-trump-told


wow

how very profoundly disappointing this is

Kelly and Mattis are the only two members of the Trump administration with any character or integrity at all

and now Kelly has sold his soul

how sad

he has let a long and distinguished career by sullied by a man like Trump

I hope it was worth it

sad day for AmericaCry


here is part of what he said


You know, when I was a kid growing up a lot of things were sacred in our country. Women were sacred. Looked upon with great honor. That's obviously not the case anymore, as we've seen from recent cases. Life was sacred. That's gone. Religion. That seems to be gone as well. Gold Star families, I think that left in the convention over the summer. I just thought the selfless devotion that brings a man or woman to die in the battlefield, I thought that might be sacred.


he talks about women being sacred

and he has aligned himself with someone like Trump ???

who has a 50 year history of victimizing and objectifying women

who called his OWN DAUGHTER "a fine piece of ___"

and said "grab them by the _____"


this is the man Kelly serves  ???


I'm speechless

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EXCELLENT analysis

What happened with Kelly, Trump & the Johnson family: standard Narcissistic Personality Disorder

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2017/10/19/1708271/-What-happened-with-Kelly-Trump-the-Johnson-family-standard-Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder

just a snippet

NPD sufferers can only fake normalcy up to a point.  They cannot fake the full range of human relationships, which includes consoling the bereaved; this is one way they get caught.

So it blew up in Trump’s face, and he resorted to his usual tactic when that happens — denying and attacking (which made the story continue) rather than apologizing and smoothing over (which would have halted it). 

And Kelly had no option, as I’m sure Trump ordered it, but to stand by his president — even though he can’t even back up Trump’s false denial, as the media are noticing, so it’s not even good spin, and despite Trump’s violation of his own privacy re his KIA son.

Kelly himself probably still doesn’t quite understand what exactly happened.

He has become an enabler for a narcissist, as entrelac points out in a comment below.  It always takes you to bad places, but at this point it’s his job.
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The S. Florida Sun Sentinel has Video of Rep. Wilson's Speech, Proving Kelly a Damn Liar.

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/2017/10/20/1708450/-The-S-Florida-Sun-Sentinel-has-Video-of-Rep-Wilson-s-Speech-Proving-Kelly-a-Damn-Liar

Kelly was WRONG

no ifs ands or buts about it

he HAS to apologize or resign

if he is smart he will use this opportunity and run like hell before his association with Trump damages his reputation any further

Trump poisons sullies and fouls everything and everybody he gets near
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Why does everything Trump touches have to be about him?

This whole spat should be about how to ease the grief of the families of those who fell in defense of their country, not what Donnie Dungo said.  

To be absolutely fair, if he managed to upset the widow with an insensitive comment, he could be forgiven: - if he apologized sincerely and tried hard to help find out what actually happened.  Assistance for the family in childcare and financial support would help, as would funding for grief counseling and self help groups.

The last thing people need when they are grieving, worse when the grief is fresh and raw, is to be called liars, dragged through the media  and used to try to prove a point.

But Trump chose instead to turn this moment of personal tragedy into an argument about what he said.

It's not all about you Donnie!  Other people have feelings too.  Even black ones.
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From Wikipedia:

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder in which there is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior characterized by exaggerated feelings of self-importance, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of understanding of others' feelings.[2][3] People affected by it often spend a lot of time thinking about achieving power or success, or about their appearance.[3] They often take advantage of the people around them.[3] The behavior typically begins by early adulthood, and occurs across a variety of situations.

comment: I think Satori's right! I'm no Psychiatrist but if this doesn't describe the man I don't know what does!
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You won't get an argument from me either.
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the reason you got CHUMP as your "leader"

the ROAST of Chump 2011

https://youtu.be/HHckZCxdRkA

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Sanders makes me laugh," because Kelly is a general we shouldn't question him" Err why?? because he DEMANDS respect....in the words of an Aussie "rack off"Demand!!!!indeed....he not in charge of his troops now.....
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Myeshia Johnson, whose husband Sergeant La David Johnson was one of four US soldiers killed in an ambush in Niger, says President Donald Trump struggled to remember her husband's name during a condolence call.
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The pregnant widow of an American soldier killed in an ambush in Niger said Monday that Donald Trump had struggled to remember his name during a condolence call, in an account the president immediately disputed.

Trump's call to Myeshia Johnson, whose husband Sergeant La David Johnson was one of four US soldiers killed in the October 4 jihadist attack, has generated a storm of controversy that is now heading into its second week.

"Yes, the president said that he knew what he signed up for but it hurts anyways," Johnson said on ABC's Good Morning America TV program, in her first public comments on the death of her 25-year-old husband.

"And I was - it made me cry because I was very angry at the tone of his voice and how he said it."

Kelly defends Trump's call to war widow
General John Kelly says he's "heartbroken" a US congresswoman overheard Donald Trump's conversation with a soldier's grieving family and chose to politicise it.
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US President Donald Trump has sent US$25,000 to the family of a soldier killed in Afghanistan, according to the White House.

I had a very respectful conversation with the widow of Sgt. La David Johnson, and spoke his name from beginning, without hesitation!

Myeshia Johnson, who is carrying the couple's third child, said she "heard him stumbling on trying to remember my husband's name and that hurt me the most."

"The only way he remembered my husband's name because he told me he had my husband's report in front of him and that's when he actually said La David."

Myeshia Johnson, the wife of Army Sgt. La David Johnson, looks down at his casket after his burial at the Hollywood Memorial Gardens in Hollywood, Florida

Myeshia Johnson, the wife of Army Sgt. La David Johnson, looks down at his casket after his burial at the Hollywood Memorial Gardens in Hollywood, Florida

The US president fired right back on Twitter, insisting: "I had a very respectful conversation with the widow of Sgt. La David Johnson, and spoke his name from beginning, without hesitation!"

Details of Trump's call were made public last week by a Democratic congresswoman who claimed the president had offended Johnson's widow, drawing accusations from the White House of politicizing the issue.

The escalating row prompted Trump's chief of staff John Kelly, a former general whose son died in Afghanistan, to deliver an emotive defense of the president -- while lashing out at the Florida congresswoman, Frederica Wilson.

Myeshia Johnson told ABC Wilson's account of the call was "100 per cent correct," saying she was a lifelong family friend and had listened in over a speakerphone.

"Whatever Miss Wilson said was not fabricated," Johnson said. "Why would we fabricate something like that?"

Asked if she had any words for the president, she replied: "No. I don't have nothing to say to him."

Trump himself kicked off the furor early last week by falsely claiming that Barack Obama and other former US leaders did not call the families of fallen soldiers.

As the controversy escalated, the president went on to claim that he had called "virtually" all fallen servicemembers' families since taking office.

That has reportedly left his administration scrambling, with four families of servicemembers receiving rush-delivered letters from the White House in recent days, according to the Atlantic.

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Irrespective of the truth, this is not an acceptable way to behave.  This woman has enough grief in her life already.  Trump can put the phone down and wander off to the next task, or round of golf.  Myesha Johnson has no escape.  She is tied to her grief without remittance or respite.  Trump should leave her alone.  If he is innocent of the accusation, then he should quietly drop the subject.  If guilty, he should apologise unreservedly.  

Other politicians are, sort of, fair game when it comes to scoring brownie points for being in the right.  Grieving widows are not.  Politicians have chosen the public life.  If it gets too hot then they can exit the kitchen.  Myesha Johnson does not have that option, nor did she choose this situation.  That renders the very act of arguing with her disgustingly offensive.

Trump, You have no honor, humanity, judgement or conscience.  You are, Sir, what we in Great Britain call a cad.
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A gentleman would have said:  "I am deeply and wholeheartedly sorry for any offence I have given by the manner in which I spoke.  No offence was intended.  I  am truly sorry for any pain and sorrow that I have caused or added to.  Believe me, neither offence, nor insult was intended.  Sargent Johnson was a hero and should be honored for his brave service and his sacrifice for our great country. How can I make amends for my insensitive pattern of speech?"

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Email Exchange Proves Trump Was Lying About Contacting Gold Star Families

https://www.pastemagazine.com/articles/2017/10/email-exchange-proves-trump-was-lying-about-contac.html


". Now, make sure you’re sitting down for this, but it turns out that Trump was lying."


what a truly vile,defective person Trump is turning about to be

is there nothing he won't LIE about ???


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I grow weary of these American Social Justice Warrior diatribes against our President.  I have told you I will begin focusing on Australia and its fault if you do not stop and I will.

http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/nation/veterans-abandoned-to-private-hells/news-story/e8f809ff0f8c244cf046a0a48c4732f8

IT hurts "Jim" that when he was medically discharged from the army with psychiatric problems in 2007, he was left for six weeks without any money.

It pains him that he was asked to work 20-hour days in Iraq, facing constant mortar barrages without any protective armour.

But what plays most on his mind is that since returning from Iraq in 2006, when he crashed into a depression that has seen him attempt suicide more than 10 times -- including by trying to hang himself in full uniform -- no one from the army has ever rung him.

No one -- not from his unit, not from the command -- has ever called to say: "How are you going, mate?"

He does not feel part of the brotherhood. He does not feel he can talk to veterans his own age.

The army has washed its hands of him. He is seen as a head case. And those who have taken an interest in this young man -- namely, veterans from earlier conflicts -- are now seeing great numbers of Iraq and Afghanistan veterans with post-traumatic trauma syndrome and major depression.

This man, aged 25 years, does not wish to be named. He was a communications specialist who was sent to Iraq on a six-month deployment in 2006.

Revelations of Jim's abandonment by the army come after The Weekend Australian reported on Saturday that dozens of Australian soldiers who had been seriously wounded in Afghanistan were checked into hospitals under false names to keep them from the public eye.

As far as the public knows, many of the terrible injuries Diggers have sustained did not happen. While the dead -- there have been 11 Australians killed in Afghanistan -- are seen coming home in coffins and in tragic airfield ramp ceremonies, discussion about the badly wounded, who come home in secret, is off limits.

Jim's case is another that appears to be off-limits for the army. He says things started going wrong about three weeks into the deployment.

"It wasn't so much that I saw things that affected me; it was the constant stress," he says.

"There's no safe zone while you're over there. There's always a threat on a daily basis. We were rocketed and mortared quite a lot whilst inside the camp, and whilst on patrol there was always the threat of IEDs (improvised explosive devices) and roadside bombs and ambushes."

Jim knew to expect such an environment, but he didn't expect to be working 20-hour days for two months straight, installing vital communications equipment, while at the same time ducking bombs. He became frazzled and unsure of himself.

"I'd be out in the open and had to work in cleanskin uniform (no body armour) and all of a sudden the rockets and mortars would start to land," he says.

"I wouldn't say I wasn't coping but I started to develop anger problems. Certainly, my work performance began to slip by the end of my deployment.

"There's an ingrained culture in the army of 'harden the f..k up'. You're not encouraged to say, 'Sir, I'm having a bit of a bad day'. You shut your mouth and get on with the job."

When he came home, he was given six weeks' post-deployment leave. That's when he noticed he wasn't right.

"I had a girlfriend," Jim says. "She left me a within a week. I had very bad anger problems and I started to drink quite heavily. I had no idea why I couldn't control my anger. All I wanted to do was just drink."

Jim had seen an army psychologist on the way out of Iraq, in Kuwait. It was a standard debriefing, like all soldiers get.

"She told me that I was very flat," Jim says. "But she said I should be OK."

After his post-deployment leave, he planned to return to normal service in Australia.

"The night before my leave finished, that's when I became suicidal," he says.

He cut his wrists but "it didn't work". He tried again more than 10 times.

Jim fell out with his family. "I couldn't relate to them any more," he says. "The things they would talk and worry about seemed very trivial to me. That was pretty much the key issue, along with my anger problem and my drinking. After I came back, I had very bad sleep problems. I couldn't have a good sleep -- nightmares."

Jim is bitter about many things. He says he and a colleague should never have been overworked the way they were in Iraq. He says that upon discharge, he was left for six weeks without any financial assistance from the military or the Department of Veterans Affairs. He was offered no follow-up assistance for his mental health issues.

Living up north at the time, he was not told there was a good repatriation hospital in Heidelberg, Victoria, for mentally traumatised veterans. He believes the army didn't want to spend the money sending him there. They would have preferred never to hear from him again.

By the time he was finally sent to the hospital's Ward 17 -- after Jim's mother had begged the army to do something with him -- he was too far gone for the low-security psychiatric facility to handle. But there was nowhere else.

He was twice put on life support after suicide attempts.

At the hospital, he met "Sandra", now his fiancee. She was an ex-policewoman who also had PTSD. They were able to talk and have now been going out for two years. Jim has tried to kill himself in his time with Sandra, but now believes -- a major relapse aside -- he might have come through the worst of it.

"He cries and screams in his sleep," Sandra says. "If there's a loud bang, he hits the deck for cover. He can't go into shopping centres. He tried to hang himself in uniform in full sight, to let people know what the army are doing to their troops.

"It's disgraceful how the military and Department of Veteran Affairs treat their veterans. The lack of support is disgraceful."

At Heidelberg, he met another person who has become important to him. Mick Quinn is with the Australian Peacekeepers and Peacemakers Association, the modern version of the RSL.

Quinn is a veteran of Cambodia and himself a minor PTSD sufferer. He says the symptoms can come on quickly -- as in Jim's case -- or lie dormant for years. Veterans of the mid-1990s Rwanda deployment are still presenting, searching for help.

About 400 Australian Defence Force peacekeepers were sent to Rwanda. It was a mind-wrecking assignment: the rules of engagement meant they could not intervene to stop massacres. They had to just stand and watch.

Quinn believes 40 per cent of those who went to Rwanda have PTSD. He is still seeing people emerging with problems from Sinai, Western Sahara, Somalia and East Timor.

"We are now getting quite increased numbers coming through from Iraq and Afghanistan, which are resulting in medical discharges," Quinn says. "These guys are coming back with very severe symptoms of PTSD, which in a lot of younger blokes they don't actually realise what's going on.

"The early stages are hyperactivity, worried about someone being behind their back, explosive tempers. In the later stages, they have what you'd call mental breakdowns."

Quinn says it used to be "standard" for the military to report 20 suicides among serving personnel each year. That has dropped to five, which suggests the army is doing something right.

"But post-army, the numbers are massive," Quinn adds. "And those numbers are not calculated. People discharge on request, they have problems fitting in, they go into fits of depressions, they become unreliable, their marriages normally break down.

"They lose their employment and they don't know what's going. They top themselves."

Quinn believes the army is trying to come to terms with the issues but says the organisation is so large and unwieldy that it can't cope. So it just kicks the psychologically traumatised out.

"A lot of the people who are getting psych-discharged don't want discharge," Quinn says. "They want to get themselves as well as they can and stay in the army. But they fall into a category where they're not trusted with a weapon any more."

Asked if public knowledge, and public empathy, would help these people, Quinn says it's hard to say. "Most expect if they go overseas and get hurt they will be looked after," he says.

"If they go overseas and come back mentally damaged, they expect they will be looked after. They're getting quite severely let down because the system can't cope with these guys.

"You can't fix them quite often because they're on a self-destruct mission. They don't want help. They want the system to react to them quickly.

"Public empathy is a funny one. One of my clients is a Timor vet. He was involved with Interfet and was in a couple of contacts and in cleaning up atrocities over there.

"He was working in a bar and on the television there was pictures of a body that was being taken off the back of a Herc(ules plane). One of the soldiers on guard with the coffin had tears running down his eyes.

"A fellow on the other side of the bar made the comment, 'Jeez, imagine if there's a big body count'.

"The Timor vet has gone off his head and trashed this guy. Public understanding would be better than public empathy, if that makes sense.

"They don't want to be in the public eye. It's embarrassing to have a PDST. I don't go out and advertise it. I take my tablets and when I have issues, I hide away and keep everything functioning normally. A lot of these guys can't do that."

Veterans and service people who need help should contact www.peacekeepers.asn.au

comment: The mainstream media must continually create issues to try and destroy Trump. Barack Obama was  Muslim supporter who not only gave millions to terrorist in Iraq - gutted fund to my fellow veterans, I am a Vietnam veteran and I don't know where you get the authority or reason to criticize anything about veterans here since you are in Australia. It makes no sense to me. You were not there at our side in the war, and you have no part in our country . Why do you do this? Have you served in the military? Have you risked your life for freedom or Democracy? What right do you have to even talk about this?

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On 15 April 2016 the web site “Ending the Fed” (ETF News) published a “breaking” news item reporting that President Obama had taken $2.6 billion from veterans’ programs and allocated it to assist Syrian refugees:

Veteran Affairs is one of the most mismanaged government program in the United States. Veterans cannot make appointments, the cost for treatment is outrageous, over 307,000 veterans died waiting for care, yet nobody has been held accountable. The most recent atrocity by the VA came when the VA went to Congress, less than three months before the end of the fiscal year, short $2.6 billion in funds in order to care for the veterans.

After discussing the possibility of closing some of the VA hospitals, Congress passed an emergency spending bill worth $3.5 billion. Josh Earnest, White House spokesman, said that the United States has committed to spend $4.5 billion in order to help rebuild Syria while also addressing the refugee camps scattered throughout Europe. $419 million will be designated for humanitarian aid assisting with Syrian refugees. The money is coming from the United States Agency for International Development which means that Congress will not get the chance to deny the funding.

https://www.usnews.com/news/articles/2016-07-26/trump-releases-10-step-veterans-affairs-solution

Now here is some reality for you and some first hand experience from a U.S. Vietnam veteran which I am. Many of my friends died in Vietnam or were wounded in battle. How many of yours were?

Since Trump has come into office, the Veteran's services I receive have improved incredibly. They built a brand new clinic for us in Monterey and now we can be in and out of an appointment in less than an hour.  For many there are no co-pays on our medicine and I had two major operations - a three-way bypass and recently a stint for a heart attack which was completely covered by the VA.

They have modernized health care with Kiosks and any time day or night I can get a provider on the phone in less than 15 minutes. Many hospitals were under investigation and there has been a mass shakedown of the whole system in America.

I am proud to be an American Veteran and with my bank and many people I deal with we are greeted with "thank you for your service to our country".

A president, while trying to call and comfort those fallen in battle, lives a life with a schedule from hell and can only do so much. 

Don't talk to me about families of fallen soldiers if you have never been there. You haven't and you know only what you read. 

We are on the verge of a nuclear war.  We desperately need to focus on important issues instead of a daily diet of Drama and the Jerry Springer show. Not only the U.S., but you have received a warning from North Korea that if you interfere - your country will be destroyed.

Why don't you focus on that? Isn't that important to you that everyone you know and love will die in radioactive wastes in agony and then all you knew will be gone.

This bickering - this drama is only because the Democrats lost. They don't care about the veterans. Obama was barely a citizen much less a veteran.

Do you care about us veterans or are you just posting more attacks again Trump without any concern for us? 

Have you ever helped an American veteran in any way? Just wondering.  I think it would be a could idea to start some threads about the treatment of veterans in Australia. After all - it's only fair.

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Med, this is not a war against you.  It's not your personal blog either, by the way.

As to "social justice warriors",  Is that what you think I, Jacksdad, Satori, Carbon and Arirish are?  Well thank you!  What a nice compliment!  I never saw myself as a warrior.  Since my children were born, I became quite the coward, as I had too much to lose.  I thought I was just someone who whined when the injustice got too severe.  Which is why I attack Trump.

Does Trudeau lie?  Undoubtedly, he is a politician.
Does May lie? Ditto.
Do either of them do it even when the evidence shows their words as blatantly untrue?  No!
Do either of them try to gag the press for personal reasons?  No!
Do either of them tax the rich less than the poor?  Yes, but not to the extent they die for the lack of basic medicine.
Do either of them abandon diplomacy whilst teetering on the brink of war?  No!
Do either of them insult their country's war dead, veterans or their grieving families?  No!
Do either of them interfere with the investigations of their criminal bureaus?  No.
In short:  Do either of them bring their high office into a state of ill-repute?  No, both have huge dignity.
Are they racist?  Probably not.  If they are they hide it admirably.
Do either divide their countries or own political parties?  No

If they started I (and I suspect the rest of us) would speak out about them too.  But, so far, even when I disagree with them, their behavior has remained within acceptable boundaries.

I can't say that for Trump.
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Ps.  If it is just because the Democrats lost,  
How come I voted the equivalent of Republican in my country last time and the one before?  
How come Bush has spoken out against current behavior?
How come two Republican senators just resigned in anger with Trump's demeanor?

I disagreed with much Bush, Clinton and Obama did, but they never crossed the line so I shut up.  Trump does not seem to know there is a line.

I understand the desperation that elevated him to power.  I am flabbergasted that he was seen as the way out.  It is like Turkeys voting for thanksgiving parties because they do not like the flavor of the grain they are fed.  How dumb can you get!
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PPs  I am glad you got free medical care.  Is that why you don't care if anyone else gets it or not?
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Med said - "Now here is some reality for you and some first hand experience from a U.S. Vietnam veteran which I am. Many of my friends died in Vietnam or were wounded in battle. How many of yours were?"

I lost friends and family in that damn war!

Med also said - "Since Trump has come into office, the Veteran's services I receive have improved incredibly. They built a brand new clinic for us in Monterey and now we can be in and out of an appointment in less than an hour. For many there are no co-pays on our medicine and I had two major operations - a three-way bypass and recently a stint for a heart attack which was completely covered by the VA."

If you really think this Congress ok'd the money for that clinic, they broke ground on it and finished building it in the last eleven months you are wrong! You should be thanking the Obama admin not Trump!
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some just dont like the TRUTH,

CHUMP is bad news for the USA ,

quaking in my boots Med...................

spot on Arirish,

Chumps been to busy playing golf and Rubbishing true Heros  to fix the Vetrans Services,

Blind fool..................

Australia dosnt put its self out there as a WORLD leader,we the ones with the Common sense,


why dosnt the GREAT USA have a universal FREE health care ,like AUSTRALIA, no one  has answered that one ,just get a diatribe of NOTHING ,why coz you dont have an answer,

i love this political thread ,such a hoot  lol



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